our greatest blessings come to us by way of madness Phaedr. 244a
"the beautiful is difficult"
I went to a party at the girl who wrote this's house once, and she is very pretty and irish and i can see how men would be more 'tolerant' of her not shaving, but i dont think they would feel the same about women who dont 'have something to make up for it'. isnt it great that men are grossed out by a woman's natural state? whereas the idea of a man waxing himself is probably weird to most women unless he is like robin williams.